THE MARRIAGE VOW
A Declaration of
Dependence upon MARRIAGE and
FAMiLY1
Faithful monogamy is at the very heart of a designed and purposeful
order – as conveyed by Jewish and Christian Scripture, by Classical
Philosophers, by Natural Law, and by the American Founders – upon which
our concepts of Creator-endowed human rights, racial justice and gender
equality all depend.2
Enduring marital fidelity between one man and one woman protects
innocent children, vulnerable women, the rights of fathers, the
stability of families, and the liberties of all American citizens under
our republican form of government. Our exceptional and free society
simply cannot endure without the transmission of personal virtue, from
one generation to the next, by means of nurturing, nuclear families
comprised of sexually-faithful husbands and wives, fathers and mothers.
We acknowledge and regret the widespread hypocrisy of many who defend
marriage yet turn a blind eye toward the epidemic of infidelity and the
anemic condition of marriages in their own communities. Unmistakably,
the Institution of Marriage in America is in great crisis:
- Slavery had a disastrous impact on African-American
families, yet sadly a child born into slavery in 1860 was more likely
to be raised by his mother and father in a two-parent household than
was an African- American baby born after the election of the USA's
first African-American President.3
- LBJ's 1965 War on Poverty was triggered in part by
the famous “Moynihan Report” finding that the black out-of-wedlock
birthrate had hit 26%; today, the white rate exceeds that, the overall
rate is 41%, and over 70% of African-American babies are born to single
parents4 – a prime sociological indicator for poverty, pathology and
prison regardless of race or ethnicity. 5
- About one million U.S. children suffer through
divorce each year – the outcome of about half of all first marriages
and about 60 percent of remarriages, disproportionately affecting
economically-vulnerable families.6
- The taxpayer-borne social costs of family
fragmentation exceeds $112 billion per year, especially when all costs
to the justice system are recognized.7
- Social protections, especially for women and
children, have been evaporating as we have collectively “debased the
currency” of marriage. This debasement continues as a function of
adultery; “quickie divorce;” physical and verbal spousal abuse;
non-committal co-habitation; pervasive infidelity and “unwed cheating”
among celebrities, sports figures and politicians; anti-scientific bias
which holds, in complete absence of empirical proof, that
non-heterosexual inclinations are genetically determined, irresistible
and akin to innate traits like race, gender and eye color; as well as
anti-scientific bias which holds, against all empirical evidence, that
homosexual behavior in particular, and sexual promiscuity in general,
optimizes individual or public health. 8
The Candidate Vow:
Therefore, in any elected or appointed capacity by which I may have the
honor of serving our fellow citizens in these United States, I the
undersigned do hereby solemnly vow* to honor and to cherish, to defend
and to uphold, the Institution of Marriage as only between one man and
one woman. I vow* to do so through my:
- Personal fidelity to my spouse.9
- Respect for the marital bonds of others.10
- Official fidelity to the U.S. Constitution,
supporting the elevation of none but faithful constitutionalists as
judges or justices.11
- Vigorous opposition to any redefinition of the
Institution of Marriage – faithful monogamy between one man and one
woman – through statutory-, bureaucratic-, or court-imposed recognition
of intimate unions which are bigamous, polygamous, polyandrous,
same-sex, etc.12
- Recognition of the overwhelming statistical
evidence that married people enjoy better health, better sex, longer
lives, greater financial stability, and that children raised by a
mother and a father together experience better learning, less
addiction, less legal trouble, and less extramarital pregnancy. 13
- Support for prompt reform of uneconomic,
anti-marriage aspects of welfare policy, tax policy, and
marital/divorce law, and extended “second chance” or “cooling-off”
periods for those seeking a “quickie divorce.” 14
- Earnest, bona fide legal advocacy for the Defense
of Marriage Act (DOMA) at the federal and state levels.15
- Steadfast embrace of a federal Marriage Amendment
to the U.S. Constitution which protects the definition of marriage as
between one man and one woman in all of the United States. 16
- Humane protection of women and the innocent fruit
of conjugal intimacy – our next generation of American children –from
human trafficking, sexual slavery, seduction into promiscuity, and
all forms of pornography and prostitution, infanticide, abortion and
other types of coercion or stolen
innocence.17
- Support for the enactment of
safeguards for all married and unmarried U.S. Military and National
Guard personnel, especially our combat troops, from inappropriate
same-gender or
opposite-gender sexual harassment, adultery or intrusively intimate
commingling among attracteds (restrooms, showers, barracks, tents,
etc.); plus prompt termination of military policymakers who would
expose American wives and daughters to rape or sexual harassment,
torture, enslavement or sexual leveraging by the enemy in forward
combat roles.18
- Rejection of Sharia Islam and all other anti-woman,
anti-human rights forms of totalitarian control.19
- Recognition that robust childbearing and reproduction is
beneficial to
U.S. demographic, economic, strategic and actuarial health and
security. 20
- Commitment to downsizing
government and the enormous burden upon American families of the USA's
$14.3 trillion public debt, its $77 trillion in unfunded liabilities,
its $1.5
trillion federal deficit, and its $3.5 trillion federal budget.21
- Fierce defense of the First Amendment's rights of
Religious Liberty and Freedom of Speech22, especially against the
intolerance of any who would undermine law-abiding American citizens
and institutions of faith and conscience for their adherence to, and
defense of, faithful heterosexual monogamy.
The Vow of Civic, Religious, Lay,
Business, and Social Leaders:
We the undersigned do hereby solemnly vow* that no U.S. Presidential
primary candidate – nor any primary candidate for the U. S. House,
Senate, Governor, state or municipal office – will, in his or her
public capacity, benefit from any substantial form of aid, support,
endorsement, contribution, independent expenditure, or affirmation from
any of us without first affirming this Marriage Vow. Furthermore, to
uphold and advance the natural Institution of Marriage, we ourselves
also hereby vow* our own fidelity to this Declaration and especially,
to our spouses.
So help us God.
* NOTE: Or, “solemnly attest”. Each signatory signs only in his or her
individual capacity as an American citizen and current or potential
leader; affiliations herein are for identification purposes only and do
not necessarily imply formal embrace of this vow or the sentiments
herein by any institution or organization.
Signatories:
Ed. Note: A controversy arose over the
first point ("Slavery had a
disastrous impact on
African-American
families, yet sadly a child born into slavery in 1860 was more likely
to be raised by his mother and father in a two-parent household than
was an African- American baby born after the election of the USA's
first African-American President.3")
and it was removed within a couple of days.
Fast
forward five months... Newt Gingrich was reportedly still being
considered for endorsement and he provided a written response to The
FAMiLY LEADER...
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: Monday, December 12
Former Speaker
Newt Gingrich Provides Written Response to The FAMiLY LEADER’s Marriage
Pledge
Pleasant Hill, IOWA. – Former Speaker and presidential candidate
Newt Gingrich has provided The FAMiLY LEADER his written response to
The Marriage Vow – A Declaration of Dependence Upon Marriage and
Family. To date, Congresswoman Michele Bachmann, Governor Rick
Perry,
and former Senator Rick Santorum have all signed the marriage
pledge.
The 14-point pledge can be found here: http://www.thefamilyleader.com/the-marriage-vow.
Speaker Newt Gingrich’s response:
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To Bob Vander Plaats and the Executive Board of The FAMiLY LEADER:
I appreciate the opportunity to affirm my strong support of the
mission of the FAMiLY LEADER by solemnly vowing to defend and
strengthen the family through the following actions I would take as
President of the United States.
Defending Marriage. As President, I will vigorously enforce the
Defense of Marriage Act, which was enacted under my leadership as
Speaker of the House, and ensure compliance with its provisions,
especially in the military. I will also aggressively defend the
constitutionality of DOMA in federal and state courts. I will
support
sending a federal constitutional amendment defining marriage as the
union of one man and one woman to the states for ratification. I
will
also oppose any judicial, bureaucratic, or legislative effort to define
marriage in any manner other than as between one man and one
woman. I
will support all efforts to reform promptly any uneconomic or
anti-marriage aspects of welfare and tax policy. I also pledge to
uphold the institution of marriage through personal fidelity to my
spouse and respect for the marital bonds of others.
Defending the Unborn. I believe that life begins at
conception. On
day one of my administration, I will sign an executive order
reinstating Ronald Reagan’s Mexico City policy that prevents taxpayer
dollars from being used to fund abortions overseas. I will also
work
with Congress to repeal Obamacare, defund Planned Parenthood so that no
taxpayer dollars are being used to fund abortions but rather transfer
the money so it is used to promote adoption and other pro-family
policies, and enact legislation that provides greater protections for
the unborn.
Defending Religious Liberty. As President, I will vigorously
defend
the First Amendment’s rights of religious liberty and freedom of speech
against anyone who would try to stifle the free expression of
believers. I will also promote legislation that protects the
right to
conscience for healthcare workers so they are not compelled to perform
abortions and other procedures that violate their religious teachings.
Defending Against Debt. As President, I will undertake vigorous
policies to maximize capital investment and job creation, along with
common sense entitlement reforms, to dramatically turn around the
nation’s fiscal situation. Building upon the same principles I
championed during my four years as Speaker, when we reduced the
national debt by over $400 billion and dramatically reduced the
national debt as a percentage of the GDP, we will reduce the enormous
burden upon American families of the public debt and unfunded
liabilities.
Defending the Right of the People to Rule Themselves. Today, as
federal courts have intervened in sectors of American life never before
imaginable, including the intervention in the definition of marriage as
well as when unborn life can be protected under the Constitution, the
public has increasingly come to view them as an usurpative device for
unelected rulers. This abuse of power and loss of public
confidence
amounts to a constitutional crisis. I believe the executive and
legislative branches each have an independent responsibility to
interpret the Constitution, and in those rare circumstances when they
believe the federal courts, including the Supreme Court, have engaged
in a serious constitutional error, they can choose among an array of
constitutional powers to check and balance the courts. As
President, I
will nominate for federal judgeships, including justices of the Supreme
Court, only those individuals who are committed to an originalist
understanding of the Constitution. Judges with an originalist
understanding will subordinate themselves to the meaning of the
Constitution as it was intended by the framers, and not substitute
their own judgments about its meaning. The inherent judicial
self-restraint that comes from an originalist approach to the
Constitution offers the best long-term assurance that federal judges
will not exceed their powers and trample on individual liberties.
I
will also work with Congress to use the Constitutional means available
to reassert the right of the elected branches of government to defend
their understanding of the meaning of the Constitution, including
limiting the jurisdiction of the federal courts to decide on certain
issues, when they believe the federal courts have engaged in a serious
constitutional error.
Sincerely,
Newt Gingrich
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In regard to Speaker Gingrich’s response, Bob Vander Plaats,
President & CEO of The FAMiLY LEADER said, “We are pleased that
Speaker Gingrich has affirmed our pledge and are thankful we have on
record his statements regarding DOMA, support of a federal marriage
amendment, defending the unborn, pledging fidelity to his spouse,
defending religious liberty and freedom, supporting sound pro-family
economic issues, and defending the right of the people to rule
themselves.”
Contact: Julie Summa
Ed. note: This was not enough
for Rev. Cary Gordon of Sioux City, a Santorum supporter, who issued a press release.